The Plan

The title says it all—that’s right; I’m a novice when it comes to anything social. I’m twenty years old and can count the number of dates I’ve had on one hand. Make that half a hand. Not to mention the number of social events I have not attended with my peers of course. My lack of dating and socializing is not by choice and in my opinion, it is pretty pathetic. No one can ever believe that I am this “challenged” in this area. I am not overly picky but I do have certain standards that I am not willing to budge on when it comes to dating. Sorry, no settling here. I can also be pretty shy and reserved upon first meeting, but once I get to know someone, you can’t shut me up. Hmmm, maybe that’s the problem.

I’m taking this time and opportunity to explore myself and my habits when it comes to socializing. I know I have flaws and am willing to work on them. It all ends here and now. I’m putting myself out there, gaining experience, learning about myself, and having fun all at the same time. I’m young and ready to experience all that life and love has to offer. It’s not too late for me yet. I’m taking my dating and social destiny into my own hands ...

My first step was to join a dating website and I chose True.com. I put up a few pictures and they’re pretty cute if I do say so myself. If I was a guy or a lesbian, I would definitely give myself a second look. I updated my Facebook and Myspace pages because those can be really great media for networking and meeting new people. I also joined a couple of groups on Meetup.com. That can be a great way to meet all kinds of people while getting to try new things. They have groups specifically for singles but they also have groups for girls’ night out, sporting activities, or just having fun. After all, my journey is not just about meeting guys; but its also about finding myself and developing an active social life.

Other things I’m considering are going to the gym to get healthier and in better shape. I’m not totally heinous looking but everyone could use a little work. I’m just trying to make myself the best me possible ... not change myself.

I need to make myself more available and that’s what I’m going to be doing from now on. I'm open to all the new people and new experiences to come. I will be chronicling my adventures as a social novice. So bring on the good, the bad, and the socializing!